You're clearly not going to stop drinking, but you should ask yourself why you are demeaning yourself in this way? If someone else was behing like this would you respect them? Have a little self-respect, if YOU don't no one else will.
Remember, there's a difference between having a laugh and making an total idiot out of yourself - let your vanity take control of your behaviour.
15, gosh im 16 but yet I find there are better ways to enjoy myself. You will end up going to far and regretting it, then the guy will lose total respect for you and behind your back just think your a slag.. so please for your own sake, have a bit of class :] x
Make sure you are never so drunk that you are can't take care of yourself. You know you get flirty when drinking so you owe it to yourself to always be capable of saying 'no' so that a guy knows you mean it. You need self-respect and that means you don't turn flirting into sleeping with some randomn boy. I know my daughters are going to drink and have sex, but I want to teach them to have enough self-respect to be choosy and ensure their boyfriends deserve them. Flirting isn't snogging and it isn't sex - make sure that is where it ends. It's very easy to get a bad reputation and much harder to lose one. I'm sure you want a nice boyfriend who will take you out and care for you. If people think you are a bit slutty it will be harder to get one.
Christ, I can't believe the amount of people telling you to stop drink!! I'd much rather make a fool of myself and have fun in the process than stay in and be a bore!! Just try drinking a little less so that your just merry not absolutely hammered! Don't mix your drinks, I'm always a nightmare when I do that!
my god. im 15 and i drink only at parties tho. EVERYONE flirts when ther drunk...you feel more confident...but dont take the confidence tooooo far and ruin the fun by doing something your gunna regret. if you really want to stop stay clear from the guys for abit... people cant tell you to stop drinking everyone does it earlier than yout used to. =]
when i was 15 im now 20 im still trying to shake off my reputation. i found myself drinking loads to give me the confidence but then it went to far. have a few then switch to coke no one will know its not vodka. my friend went to a party and not drink at all. sounds extreme but she got a bit of hassle at the beginning but then everyone got too drunk to realise, she then videoed me and my friends drunk and showed it to me then next day at first it was funny but then i realised how stupid it was. i was 15 and i had no control of what was going on around me.so try going to a party and not drinking see if it makes u relaise how immature everyone is being. make sure you can stay in control.
I am only 17 and can relate to you on that. But, you get to a point where you realize how you're acting like you have, but whether or not you want to fix it is up to you. You've admitted the problem which is the first step so now when you go to a party try drinking a bit less and I don't care who you are no matter how much you drink you still know exactly what's going on around you so focus on one guy whose focusing on you and flirt with him all night. Just don't let things get too far because that could lead to something you don't want.
there is a point in everyones life where the do stupid things drunk, if you never stuff up how can you learn from your mistakes?
flirting with guys while drunk is the least of your worries, just have fun and never regret anything, the rest of you are a bunch of old bags who are too uptight and need to live, your just going to die the same as everyone else so get off your high horses, shes not a slut just cause she flirts while intoxicated,
aged 16