Be interesting and people will be interested in you too. Pursue all your favorite hobbies and be the best at them you can be. That way, you will enjoy time with yourself with or without a guy at your side, and the guys you attract will be ones who are truly interested in you.
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How to appeal to guys
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Some guys like perfume, some don't. It'd be nice if there were simple, step-by-step, IKEA-like instructions for appearing attractive and charming, but there aren't. Magaziney-like generalizations like "Guys like X, guys don't like Y" are probably not good advice. The WORST thing you can do is listen to them and attempt to come off as someone other than who you actually are. If you like to wear perfume, wear perfume, and one day you'll meet a guy who likes perfume. Now re-read that sentence and replace "perfume" with other things you like.
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Smiling and eye contact are key, but what I also think is important is that you're truly having fun. If he sees you enjoying yourself, he'll want to join you. I've found there is nothing more seductive to men than a woman who revels in herself and finds amusement wherever she happens to be.
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It sounds stupid but it worked for a friend: FALL OVER! that way if hes a nice guy he'll help u up and you can get chatting and if he just ignores you or lafughs then you know he's a plonker in the first place!
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Well first you need to pick the boy that you fancie but also likes you. Then you have to gradually make friends with him. And each day make him like you a little bit more but don't flirt with him just tell him jokes and smile and chat or chat to him on msn,Habbo...... Then one ay get alone with him in the play ground and ask him out he should say yes
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1) Make it clear you have your own personality 2) Make him laugh (you can usually do this just by laughing at things yourself) 3) Don't be afraid to be silly or weird (Warning: I'm a guy.) I can't tell you how many times I've not really found a girl attractive at first glance, but after talking to her a bit she seems beautiful. Or vice versa. There's something in the brain of guys that makes them find women even more physically attractive when their personality is attractive. I can't explain it but it's true. I've discussed this with other guys and it's generally agreed upon. Don't let magazines and websites with dating do's-and-don't distill you down to some bland status quo. Don't sit there nervously analyzing body language and signals. Be yourself and make it clear you're a fun person and not like every other girl.
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Sadly you can't "persuade" anyone to be interested in you romantically. What you can do however, is be fun and relaxed to hang around with and become friends - without leeching onto him. Once he sees how fabulous you are he might find you irresistable after all!
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In-line: If you are waiting in line behind a cute guy, share an understanding smile as if to say, "Isn't this line annoying?" On-line: If you find a guy you are interested in, start out with a friendly, rather than flirty conversation. Just drop him a line about how he looks like someone you know. In A Bar: Be bold. Men use pick up lines and you should also have a stash. "You don't strike me as the type of guy who would come to a place like this?" Classic. "What makes you different than any other guy in this bar?" Sassy, but cute. In Life: Simply be kind. Just say "Hello." And most importantly, be yourself, because that is who he needs to fall in love with.
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I have found if you focus on yourself, making your life fabulous without a man, you will attract men bc you're amazing and they can see it and want to be part of your life. Also, be independent, don't act like you need a man. This is a challenge to guys, and they love to pursue.
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1) Have a laugh, no one likes someone who can't let themself go once in a while 2) Don't agree with EVERYTHING he says (it just gets irritating when he says something and you go "Oh I sooo agree") 3) Show your girlie side every now and then
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Definitely display a fun and upbeat personality and "approachableness"... warm and friendly. Guys are usually afraid to approach, the more approachable you are, the more guys you will attract and if guys are around you, then other guys will think you are attractive, it is a herd mentality. Also go to wikipedia and ask these questions..they have long, involved answers for things like this! Very intersting too! Like "How to Have A Good Personality" etc
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Be yourself, fun and open-minded. Have conversations and be friendly. If you are not open and interested then he may feel a bit awkward. Guys like "doing some of the chasing" so don't make yourself constantly available or you may end up neglecting yourself when in reality a guy would admire the way you are. Love yourself and then you ,in turn, can be loved by others.
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SMILE! be approachable and friendly and any guy is bound to want to get to know you! be confident but make sure you dont seem too up your own bum! There is nothing worse than a girl who is in love with herself! If you have strong personality, friendly eyes and a sweet smile they'll all be queing up!
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I read somewhere that in order to be "loved", you have to be "lovable". I guess this means, think about the characteristics you would want in a man and apply them to yourself? I agree with all the other tips, especially when it comes to being an interesting person with your own life, as well as being interested in what he does/says. I think being lovable means being yourself, letting him see that you're a unique woman with her own personality, sense of humour, intelligence etc...as well as making the effort to dress nicely, smell nice and take care of yourself. Personally, I try to present myself as the type of woman he would want to take home to meet his mother, rather than the woman he just wants to take home to bed lol!
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Remember all men are just big babies - just flatter them, praise them, tell them how clever they are, and make them feel important! PATHETIC ISN'T IT?
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Ok ignore all the women who are full of themselves and tell you to push your boobs and arse out! its all a load of rubish, the 2 things that a man likes about a woman is her mouth, (whether or not she's smiling) then her eyes, (whether she's keeping eye contact) so from this I suggest keep on smiling at him, sweetly and not in the creepy way! and try and keep subtle eye contact again not in a creepy way! ha ha Also a laugh normally attracts male attention, if u laugh out loud at a joke etc (not at nothing or he'll be getting the straight jacket out!) It shows that you're outgoing and fun, which men love! try and stick to these 3 things and I'm sure he'll be paying you all the attention you deserve!
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If You Are Close Enuogh To The Man, Then As The First Tip Says, The First Thing A Man Notices Is Hair Eyes And Smell. Having Clean, Fresh Smelling Hair And A Nice Perfume Will Work Wonders, As Will Making Your Eyes Look As Good As A Possible.
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Old fashion tricks are tried and true.The best way to a man's heart is still through his stomach... seize opportunities to showcase your cooking or baking skills... if you're lacking in this department, there' s no law against pastry plagiarism!
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This is the advice I got from one of my friends. If you see a guy, when he looks in your direction smile at him and look away after a second. If he looks over again smile at him for a few seconds longer, then look away. Finally, hold eye contact and break away laughing to yourself as if you just thought of something funny. SILENT laughter!
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Modern girls should remember that perfume is a turn on. It puts some sort of exciting mystery there. But too much is a turn off.
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Sorry, but guys really do notice a dirty house. A dirty bathroom is particularly bad, it makes you look slutty and grubby.
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When you are around a guy you like then pretend to ignore him and try to make him jealous. Make him question you. I tried that with a guy and I got his attention. Don't make him think that you are trying to get his attention. Make him try to get YOUR attention. Look at him once and only once. Wait for him to come to you. Try to show what your all about to him.
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Gently flutter your eyelashes. Its a classic!
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Be confident and make sure you like yourself too! Its not about being pretty (sure that helps). I know from experience. I work on the groundscrew at a golf course- I put VERY little effort in to my appearance before work and am often covered in dirt or grass with my hair out of place - I get hit on often! Just love yourself and don't be afraid to smile!
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There's a quote that says it all : In order to make a man or a boy covet a thing, it is only necessary to make the thing difficult to obtain.
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A real smile, the kind that makes the skin around your eyes crinkle, not the phoney posed kind is very appeal. Men say that they like a sense of humor but don't be funnier than he is or he'll feel intimidated.
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Go up to him and say, "I had the weirdest dream about you!" during a passing period or another short amount of time. Then tell him you'll tell him sone other time. He'll approah YOU, and you can make him laugh by your "totally real" dream. Perfect!
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just be yourself and have confidence be nice loud and not care or make a big deal about what others say about you. it works great for me.
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I LOVE guys just as much as everyone, but seriously, We DoN't need a guy to be happy! Don't change who you are for the guy you like, because if he doesn't like the real you, hes not worth it.
