I would probably put this down to experience and move on! Sorry, probably not the answer you wanted but take it from someone who's boyfriend (at 16) cheated and messed me about an awful lot. I put up with it for 7 years before I realised I deserved better treatment - his attitude changed but too late! I know you really like him but he did cheat on you and he was sober. Learn the lesson, stop texting him and calling him and give him reason to be jealous by finding someone better. Good luck.

Ditch him! I know it's not what you want to hear at your age but move on. Find another guy who won't be unfaithful. Also, you can't make a guy want you through jealousy, it rarely works because they have that whole she is a wh**e double standard. At your age there are so many baggage free fish in the sea, go get the one you deserve.

Dont try! I understand you like him and possibly more if you see him and his behaviour as a challange. But the bottom line is a cheater is a heartbreaker. If you lose trust in someone its almost impossible to trust them fully again. You cant relax with them when they are out of sight and that will do your head in. You deserve a boyfriend you can trust and one that you wont want to kiss anyone else drunk or sober if they are in your life. You have lots of time at 16 you will find someone else who will treat you better.

You're 16, you have years of life ahead of you, dont waste it on this no hoper bf. He cheated on you when sober, which proves he can and most likely will do it again, and if he can do it sober, drunk will be even easier. If anything you should be ignoring his texts and calls. You were drunk, probably not in your right mind when you kissed your friend, he was sober and I assume he has a brain. So he could of said NO. I dont agree with cheating, but I think hes worst than you. I assume he slept with someone else when sober? Ditch the idiot, get yourself someone better, you're only 16 and have lot of life to live, dont waste in on this idiot. I did on a guy for 6years when I was around your age and I wish I didnt now