Many women can pull off grey hair nicely and it adds character to many women. However, grey hair tends to be drier than hair that has not yet lost its' pigment so be sure to invest in a good deep conditioner to use on your grey locks!
Get some colour! Either a semi that tones in the grey gently and gradually fades so you don't end up with roots. or gently highlights in soft warm honey/caramel tones to blend the grey in naturally. Discuss options with your hairdresser unless she suggests bleach blonde highlights then run out of the salon as fast as you can! Lastly don't be tempted to tint your hair dark(like you were when you were young) cos as your hair fades so does your skin tone and it wont look right! go slightly lighter/softer shade.
i think grey hair is really sophisticated!
if you find some websites with fashionable grey hair get that done!
most grey is suited quite short with lots of fashionable clothes dangle earings!
when ever you go shopping look for women with grey hair see what their wearing and hpw it might look on you!
your hair stylist might be able to help.