My solution is this.....50% (maybe more) relationships end in divorce so just wait around and he will become available.
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Topics: romance relationships
How to cope with the fact that the man of your dreams already has a girlfriend
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Wouldn't the 'man of your dreams', be available to you, rather than be attached to someone else? Ok, presuming he does still have a girlfriend . . . Would you really want him to be the kind of person you could entice away, knowing then that the same could happen to you? Men will always 'look', fact.
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Think about why you're attracted to a "taken" man. Are you choosing an unavailable man because you're too scared to face a real relationship? Or do you see another woman's man as a challenge? Do you think it makes you "better" than her if you can lure him away? I've been on both sides of this and neither is pretty. He's a human being, not a prize to be won. Live your life as though he doesn't exist, and it it's meant to be then it will happen.
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Accept that he probably is NOT the man of your dreams and move on. What will be will be
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1. Respect his relationship with his girlfriend 2. If you have the opportunity, get to know him as a friend and let him get to know you as a friend. (You may not like him as much as you think.) 3. Do not flirt with him 4. Go about your business and your life. If his relationship with his girlfriend runs its course and ends, then you have a chance. But you must not affect the timing of that in any way. In the meantime, you may meet someone else even better.
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Not to mention, do you really want your relationship to come at someone else's expense? That's a really bad start. If he was really the man of your dreams, he wouldn't be involved with anyone else. And think about it - how would you feel if someone else thought YOUR boyfriend was the man of her dreams and was asking for advice on how to lure him away?
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Having been in the unfortunate position of having another woman decide that my husband was her dream man, I'd have to say... if the man of your dreams already has a girlfriend, you should do absolutely nothing. You have no right to attempt to disrupt another relationship for your own ends, and even if you were a nasty enough piece of work to decide that you were going to try to lure an already attached man away, what makes you think he wouldn't be prepared to allow it to happen again later on? What goes around...
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i have been on the recieving end of girls trying to steal my boyfriend and it is not nice so dont do it... why dont you just forget it, if your meant to be together, fate will find a way so just leave it to fate. if he did leave his girlfreind for you would you want him anyway? knowing that he can be led astray?
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I don't believe in all this girls unite stuff. If you've got what they want they'll take it; so why not actively go after the bloke you want, even if he is with somone else. It doesn't all have to be about them. If a man chooses to be with you over his current partner it may just mean that they are not meant to be together, not necessarily that he is just pandering to his sex drive. Afterall, how many of us girls get stuck in dead end relationships with Mr safe because were too afraid to put our heart on the line. So never accept he's not the one and embrace the fact there is always hope but you've got to make it happen. (without turning into a stalker!)
