You'll never tame a player unless he wants to be tamed, if he wants you to be the person to tame him he'll come chasing you. If you go after him now, he probably will sleep with you or whatever, but by the sounds of it it isn't going to develop further than him taking advantage of the fact that he can mess you about and you'll go back.

Yeah I agree, when a guy says he doesn't want you and stops contacting you ,take him at his word ,he means it ,but it wouldn't stop him sleeping with you if he thought you were up for it .

The thing is, it shouldn't and isn't like this when two people are in love and want to be together. I suggest reading a fantastic book "He's Just Not That Into You" (seriously, I did for my therapy training) the book title sounds like a insult, but really it is about treating yourself better, not wasting your pretty on boys who don't return calls, who send you on a wild goose chase and delete, next them *The Rules - also another excellent guide, not bible* all these maybe's choke up your dating potential and limit your vision to timewasters rather than opening your eyes to guys who will move mountains to make you happy and can pick up a phone and call when he says he will. He is just not that into you. xxx

xXleanneXx is right, you need to let go of him because he'll think that he can control you. try finding someone new and then you'll realise that your relationship with him might not have been as good as you thought it was, this will help you to move on

I know its extremely hard, you can't just forget about somebody, so I'm not going to say you have to! What I will say is, try your best to move on and get on with your life, go out with your friends.. He will see this and soon realise the world doesn't revolve around him.. If its meant to be he'll come running back.