It takes time, it took me years to and even now he still "pops in " to my mind . But there's no feeling or hurt anymore.You've got to make him less important in your thoughts ,keep busy, go out with friends, live your life your way, remember why he's your ex. If you start thinking about him say STOP out loud and do something to take your mind off him. You have a choice , so CHOOSE to forget him

took me ages too. Then it vanished..... he still pops in my head every now and again... but there's no hurt or heart sinking feeling anymore.... You've got to think about what you've gained out of the relationship- whether its a life lesson or you fell in love with him... and when you think about him dont be bitter, just think 'well it was good while it lasted'... Everything happens for a reason.... and you gain from every experience... if he pops in your head... so be it.. You've moved on now. Stonger