This happened to me. He broke to my heart BADLY. I bumped into him years later and i knew I looked even better than when we were together.... he was gutted... tears in his eyes.... I was having a ball... men all around me and friends... and he was just watching from afar.. Suddenly i got a letter from him saying how he wanted me back bla bla bla.... i ignored it. This took strength however as i never fell out of love with him - until i met my present boyfriend of 7 years who is amazing.

You must look fabulous at all times, show that you are enjoying your life, that you are having the best time . don't call him, if you meet in the street , smile then walk on , be brave girl, he wasn't good enough for you and you must treat him as such. Who knows he might come begging you to have him back , and you know what ? You'll probably be over him !!!

show him your having the time of your life. organise nights out with friends - male and female if you want - flirt with other people, make it known your single and loving it. If you have any life goals and/or aspirations then go for them, and grab them with both hands. Make him see that since he's gone you've had all this success, all these good times and you've got your life back on track. This will be the hard bit but try and make it seem like your not missing him at all, your life is much better without him. If you felt strongly enough for him that what he's done has broken your heart then he's not worth a look